Then Skyler tells people to completely ditch the idea that sex is a goal-oriented act with orgasm being the big finish. Here's what they had to say:įirst realize that this is normal, and just because it happened once does not mean it will happen again (but freaking out about it could make it happen again). Darius Paduch, urologist and male sexual medicine specialist at New York Presbyterian/Weill Cornell Medical Center, and sex therapist Jenni Skyler, Ph.D., director of The Intimacy Institute for sex and relationship therapy in Boulder, Colorado. Thanks for your question, Frightened Turtle! To help answer it, we spoke with Dr.
Is there any advice you guys might be able to give me here? I've been thinking that maybe I should pop a Viagra or something the next time I think I'm gonna get lucky, just to build my confidence a bit, but that's really my last resort. My fear of this happening has prevented me from getting with girls who aren't randoms in fear that they'll tell people about it. Then once the 30 seconds of embarrassing made-up explanations concludes, the erection is back.
During any foreplay and all that good stuff, I have a nice big erection, but as soon as I'm about to stick it in, the erection disappears like a frightened turtle. I'm a college guy who has only had sex a handful of times, and I've noticed a bit of a reccurring issue.
